Premarital Counseling Interview

As a couple, please take the time together to fill out the form below.

Estimated time to complete the form is about 20 minutes.

Once submitted, a copy of your answers will be sent to you and to our premarital counseling team here at Grace.

His Details

Name

First Last

Age

Address

Street Address City State ZIP Code

Mobile Phone

Email Address

Occupation

How long have you been attending GCF Brenham?*

Her Details

Name

First Last

Age

Address

Street Address City State ZIP Code

Mobile Phone

Email Address

Occupation

How long have you been attending GCF Brenham?*

Wedding Details

Are you engaged?

Yes

Do you have a wedding date set?

Yes

Wedding Date

Who would be officiating your wedding?*

We have someone that we'd like to officiate our wedding.

We would like to have a pastor from GCF Brenham officiate our wedding.

Name of person you would like to have officiate your wedding:*

Personal Details

How did you meet? How long have you been dating each other?

What kinds of dates have you had (types of activities; whether you have primarily spent time just with yourselves, or with other people, etc.)?

Have you ever broken off your relationship? If yes, why did this happen? And why did you get back together?

Briefly tell about your families.

How well have you gotten to know each other's family?

How do your family and friends feel about your relationship?

HIM: How would you evaluate your parents' marriage?

HER: How would you evaluate your parents' marriage?

Why did you decide to marry each other? OR: Why are you considering marriage?

Why do you think this marriage will work?

What preparation for marriage have you had?

What do you hope to receive from this premarital class?

Is there anything else that either of you would like to ask or share that hasn't been addressed?

Have you been married before? Detail how it ended, was the divorce finalized, has the previous spouse remarried, and any failings you can identify that contributed to the breakdown of this previous marriage.

Spiritual Background

Describe your church and spiritual background.

What effect has Jesus Christ had on your life?

Where is Jesus Christ in relationship to you? Is he your personal Lord and Savior?

What part has God played in your relationship?

What part do you expect God to play in your marriage?

Moral Guidelines

Why do you think God would design sex to be enjoyed only within the context of marriage? Do you see any benefits to waiting?

What are your boundaries?

What has your physical involvement with each other been up to this point?

How do you feel about our premarital counseling team periodically asking you how you are doing in this area?

Are you willing to abstain from sexual involvement until your marriage?

Scheduling Preferences

As part of your premarital counseling here at Grace, you'll participate in an 8-week class. Please list your top three preferences for days of the week to meet with your mentor couples. Please note that premarital sessions are not offered on Fridays and Saturdays.

Preferred Day #1*

Preferred Time*

Preferred Day #2

Preferred Time

Preferred Day #3

Preferred Time

Comments / Remarks

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